Healthy nurture cadence
2 / monthTwo meaningful touches per active partner per month. Below that, drift sets in. Above that, the relationship turns transactional.
Source · Higglo cohort studyFree playbook · for ABA & behavioral health
Stay top-of-mind without being pushy.
A six-step playbook for nurturing referral-partner relationships across the months between active conversations. Bi-weekly cadence, touchpoint triggers, the quarterly capacity-update email, channel decision tree, and a minimum-viable CRM that fits in a spreadsheet.
The SOP
Six steps. One sustainable rhythm.
Built from 14 ABA referral programs across 24 months. The full playbook is below - cadence table, the quarterly capacity email, channel decision tree, and the spreadsheet-CRM column structure included. Free, no signup required to read.
SOP unlocked · 6 steps
S.01
Bi-weekly follow-up cadence.
The goal of nurture is predictable presence - not constant contact. Two meaningful touches per month per active partner is the target.
| Week | Touch type | Channel | Time |
|---|---|---|---|
| Week 1 | Value email (resource, article, update) | 5 min | |
| Week 3 | Personal check-in or office visit | Phone / In-person | 15 min |
S.02
Personalized touchpoint ideas.
Use these triggers to make touchpoints feel natural instead of scheduled:
- Provider opens a new location → congratulations note + offer to tour your clinic
- Provider is featured in local news → share the article with a genuine comment
- Holiday season → a handwritten card (not a generic email blast)
- Your practice launches a new service → brief update on how it benefits shared patients
- A shared patient hits a milestone → HIPAA-compliant thank-you note to the referrer
- You attend a conference → "I was at [conference] and thought of you when they discussed [topic]"
S.03
Quarterly referral filter email.
Use this quarterly to clarify what kinds of referrals you can actually accept:
Subject: Quick update on our current capacity Hi Dr. [Last Name], Wanted to give you a quick update on what we're able to take right now: ✅ Ages: [X–X years] ✅ Diagnoses: ASD, ADHD with behavioral components, developmental delays ✅ Insurance: [List accepted plans] ✅ Availability: [Openings in which days/times] ⚠️ Currently at capacity for: [Age groups, diagnoses, or insurance plans you can't take] If you have families that match, the fastest path is to [call/fax/email] - our intake team typically follows up within [X] business days. Thanks for keeping us in mind. [Your Name]
S.04
Channel decision tree.
- Email → sending a resource, sharing an update, low-urgency check-in
- Phone → following up on a referred family, addressing a concern, relationship-building with a new partner
- In-person → quarterly visit to Tier 1 partners, new provider introduction, hosting a lunch-and-learn
- Card / gift → holidays, practice milestones, thank-you after a string of referrals
S.05
Minimum-viable CRM tracking.
You don't need expensive software. A shared Google Sheet works. Track these columns per provider:
- Provider name, specialty, practice, phone
- Tier (1 or 2)
- Last contact date + type (email / call / visit)
- Referrals received (count, last date)
- Next scheduled touch + notes
S.06
Value reciprocation.
The best referral relationships are mutual. Find ways to add value back:
- Refer families back to them when appropriate (SLPs, OTs, dietitians)
- Invite them to speak at your parent education events
- Feature them in your email newsletter or blog as a recommended local resource
- Share general outcome data (e.g., average goal mastery rates) - never patient-identifiable data without signed authorization
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Four rules from two-year cohort data.
R.01
Predictable presence beats constant contact.
Two well-chosen touches per month sustain a relationship. Three or more reads as needy. The cadence matters more than the volume.
R.02
The quarterly capacity email is the unsung hero.
Most provider relationships drift because the partner doesn't know what you can take. A 90-day capacity update keeps you top-of-mind without asking for anything.
R.03
Reciprocate or fade.
Referral relationships are mutual. Refer back when appropriate, feature them in newsletters, invite them to events. One-way relationships rarely survive year two.
R.04
Track in a spreadsheet before you buy a CRM.
Five columns in Google Sheets does the job for most practices through 100 active partners. Software is a nice-to-have; cadence is the actual lever.
Benchmarks · referral retention
What healthy nurture actually returns.
Active referrers retained at 24 months
72%Practices running structured nurture retain 7 of 10 active referrers across two years. Practices without nurture retain about 3 of 10.
Source · 24-month cohort, n=14Hours per week per 25 partners
~ 3Sustainable cadence: about 3 hours per week of nurture work per 25 active partners. Scales linearly to ~10 hours for 100 partners.
Source · Higglo benchmarksKeep going
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